Hum, first i'm gonna ignore your second post.
Then, nobody can play your own char, it's you who have to make choise.
Elf Stat :
STR 82
DEX 61
CON 82
INT 41
WIT 38
MEN 37
So, first, as you can see, you're based on "warrior" stat, so forget about WIT MEN and INT.
Second, the choise of STR, DEX and CON depend on how you wannaplay.
Remember
STR : P. Atk., P. Critical Damage
DEX : P. Critical Rate, P. Accuracy, P. Evasion, Atk. Spd.
COn : Max HP, HP Regeneration, Weight, Breath, Shield Def. Success Rate, Resistance to physical abnormal state.
ButSTR also influence your chance to critic skills ( duration or reuse). The more you have better the chance is.
If you want to play like a DD (you're not one) increase STR or DEX.
If you play on defensive mode increase CON ( more HP so better heal, more resist.
Somo ppl telling me to go +15 Con - STR to be a full suport char.
Iss Enchanter is a support char, i play mine on this way ( play with CON +9 and at level 92 i have ~30k HP).
got the below stats on my lvl 90 dual class ISS sub
118 STR 59 DEX 87 CON 43 INT 38 WIT 42 MEN
this works out fine for me with my gear and if you use a hp weapon, if possible go with 2nd sa Haste, you got more then enough hp to do fine in pvp, pve hp pool doesn't matter unless you have clutch healers..
the only ISS that go full +15 CON are the ones that don't like to kill stuff themselves imo..
btw below is the Dye set up and some skill oe of a lvl 99 ISS from my clan who has been hero many many times..